Whether it is in school or in the workplace, or even in other areas of life. Public speaking is something that most people have to do at some point. The dread of public speaking is well noted but it does not have to be such a dreaded experience. The tips below can help you build your confidence.
When speaking in public, make sure that what you have to say is engaging, otherwise you risk boring the crowd. Regardless of what you have to say, it will not go over well if it is boring. Practice your speech on people you know to see how the message you are giving is being received.
Make sure that you stay focused once you get out there and start talking. Your message will not be received well if you go too far off topic. Do everything you can to stay on the original topic, or you may risk scaring away a large portion of your audience.
Find one person in the crowd who looks trustworthy and focus on them. Pretend like the two of you are the only people in the room. A major reason why people are scared of speaking in public is because of the amount of people in the room. If you just focus on one person, you will forget anyone else is there.
If you realize you missed a sentence of your speech, just keep going. If you stop and backtrack and try to correct your error, you will end up with a big mess. In general, the audience is not going to know that you missed a small portion of your prepared speech.
Avoid fidgeting when speaking in front of an audience. Playing with your hair, chewing on your nails and other similar behaviors serve to distract the audience from listening to what you have to say. Instead of remembering your message, they may remember that you continually smoothed your hair. If you find it difficult to stop fidgeting, clasp your hands together in front of you or behind you, or place them on the lectern.
Do not try to be someone else when giving your speech. If you want to grab your audience’s attention, you cannot come across as fake; your audience will not take you seriously. So, in other words, avoid saying things you would not normally say and don’t do anything you normally would not do.
Take a look at the venue before you make your speech. See how big the room is, how many seats there are, and what the lighting is like. You will feel less nervous when you know what environment you will be dealing with. Also, try standing at the podium to get a feel of the stage.
From above, you can see there are many ways to help conquer or control your fear of public speaking. Find out what you fear the most about public speaking and the use the techniques that address those issues. Then put them into practice in many situations and will soon be able to give a public speech quite as ease.