Learning to speak in public can be a very intimidating process. However, it can be very beneficial for work and professional settings. You can overcome your fears and learn to speak with confidence. Practice the following advice to become more comfortable. The more you work on this skill, the better you will be.
Make sure that you stay focused once you get out there and start talking. Your message will not be received well if you go too far off topic. Do everything you can to stay on the original topic, or you may risk scaring away a large portion of your audience.
When you are speaking in public, there is usually a time frame that you need to stick to. Make sure that you get to your key points before your time is up. Otherwise, you will have wasted all of our time since the audience will not have received the message you were trying to deliver.
Make sure you wear a supportive pair of shoes when you do public speaking. You want your posture to be tall and confident, with open and relaxed shoulders so you portray confidence. If you get tense on stage from feet, knee or low back pain, it will affect your speech greatly.
Make eye contact with your audience as much as you can. Don’t allow anything to distract you, no matter what may be going on around the room or auditorium. You must command the attention of your audience.
Try to relax before and during your speech. Breathe deeply and remember that you are well-prepared, so you have nothing to worry about. Some say that it helps to envision your audience members in their underwear to help you relax. This sort of visualization can help you look and feel more relaxed while speaking.
The tone of your speech should depend on who you are giving it to. For instance, if your speech is work-related, your speech should be professional. On the other hand, if you are around friends and have to make a speech, you can be more personal. Base your whole speech on your audience.
Never tell the audience that you’re sorry for being nervous or any other issue that comes up. Chances are they didn’t even notice in the first place. Even if they do, coming across as lacking in confidence detracts from your position of authority on your speech that you are making.
Avoid drinking alcohol before your speech. Although you may think that a bit of alcohol will boost your confidence, the results could be disastrous. Alcohol can cause memory issues and may make you stumble over your words.
Always be yourself when you are giving a speech and you will have better luck with the audience. Sincerity is a quality that many people respect and admire. If it is clear to the audience that you are not putting on a show when you are speaking to them, they will receive your message better.
Now you know some of the tips used by masters of public speaking. Use them in your own life to help boost your confidence. The more comfortable you are speaking in public, the greater your opportunities to advance in your profession. Take notes from what you have just read and apply them to your situation.